Introduce supported bit masks for setting the access attributes of MWs,
MRs, and QPs. Check these when attributes are set.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230530221334.89432-5-rpearsonhpe@gmail.comSigned-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>