tcp_reset() ends with a sequence that is carefuly ordered.

We need to fix [e]poll bugs in the following patches,
it makes sense to use a common helper.
Suggested-by: Neal Cardwell <ncardwell@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Acked-by: Neal Cardwell <ncardwell@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240528125253.1966136-2-edumazet@google.comSigned-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>