Make it match its definition (size_t vs unsigned long). And declare
it in a shared header to fix the -Wmissing-prototypes warning, as it
is defined in the user code and called in the kernel code.

Fixes: 5b301409 ("UML: add support for KASAN under x86_64")
Signed-off-by: Tiwei Bie <tiwei.btw@antgroup.com>
Signed-off-by: Richard Weinberger <richard@nod.at>