xfrm needs to populate ipv4/v6 flow struct for route lookup.
In the past there were several bugs in this code:

1. callers that forget to reload header pointers after
   xfrm_decode_session() (it may pull headers).
2. bugs in decoding where accesses past skb->data occurred.

Meanwhile network core gained a packet dissector as well.
This switches xfrm to the flow dissector.

Changes since RFC:
Drop ipv6 mobiliy header support, AFAIU noone uses this.

Drop extraction of flowlabel, replaced code doesn't set it either.
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/20230908120628.26164-3-fw@strlen.de/Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>