Add a helper to convert a SPTE to its shadow page to deduplicate a
variety of flows and hopefully avoid future bugs, e.g. if KVM attempts to
get the shadow page for a SPTE without dropping high bits.

Opportunistically add a comment in mmu_free_root_page() documenting why
it treats the root HPA as a SPTE.

No functional change intended.
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Message-Id: <20221019165618.927057-7-seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>