Once upon a time, hotplugging devices on MST branches actually worked in
DRM. Now, it only works in amdgpu (likely because of how it's hotplug
handlers are implemented). On both i915 and nouveau, hotplug
notifications from MST branches are noticed - but trying to respond to
them causes messaging timeouts and causes the whole topology state to go
out of sync with reality, usually resulting in the user needing to
replug the entire topology in hopes that it actually fixes things.

The reason for this is because the way we currently handle UP requests
in MST is completely bogus. drm_dp_mst_handle_up_req() is called from
drm_dp_mst_hpd_irq(), which is usually called from the driver's hotplug
handler. Because we handle sending the hotplug event from this function,
we actually cause the driver's hotplug handler (and in turn, all
sideband transactions) to block on
drm_device->mode_config.connection_mutex. This makes it impossible to
send any sideband messages from the driver's connector probing
functions, resulting in the aforementioned sideband message timeout.

There's even more problems with this beyond breaking hotplugging on MST
branch devices. It also makes it almost impossible to protect
drm_dp_mst_port struct members under a lock because we then have to
worry about dealing with all of the lock dependency issues that ensue.

So, let's finally actually fix this issue by handling the processing of
up requests asyncronously. This way we can send sideband messages from
most contexts without having to deal with getting blocked if we hold
connection_mutex. This also fixes MST branch device hotplugging on i915,
finally!

Cc: Juston Li <juston.li@intel.com>
Cc: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Cc: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Harry Wentland <hwentlan@amd.com>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Reviewed-by: Sean Paul <sean@poorly.run>
Signed-off-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20191022023641.8026-5-lyude@redhat.com