GH-2919: Prevent tuple constants that compare equal but have different item types from being merged into one.

GH-2934: improve error reporting for non-constant exception value expressions

GH-2934: improve error reporting for non-constant exception value expressions: instead of two errors and a crash, just report it once and explicitly.

Clean weakrefs before calling user's dealloc

Add PyGILState_Check to Includes/cpython/pystate.pxd

Closes #2926.

We must clean the weakreferences before calling the user's __dealloc__
because if the __dealloc__ releases the GIL, a weakref can be
dereferenced accessing the object in an inconsistent state or
resurrecting it.