compile on darwin too

When using automatic NodeIds, we can still have a race.

Suggestion by Kirill Smelkov.

This causes an INTERRUPT to happen, which is useful to see in
practice.

When adding a sleep to the READ operation, this yields the following
trace:

 rx 28: OPEN i2 {O_RDONLY,0x8000} 
 tx 28:     OK, {Fh 1 }
 rx 30: READ i2 {Fh 1 [0 +4096)  L 0 RDONLY,0x8000} 
 killing subprocess
 rx 32: FLUSH i2 {Fh 1} 
 tx 32:     OK
 rx 33: INTERRUPT i0 {ix 32} 
 tx 33:     OK
 tx 30:     OK,  1024b data "********"...
 rx 34: RELEASE i2 {Fh 1 0x8000  L0} 
 tx 34:     OK


ie. rather than canceling the READ, a FLUSH is issued which is then
INTERRUPTed.

Add stub implementations for the rest of the methods from the
Operations interface, and add a compile-time check that we don't
have missed any.

This should decrease confusion between Inode and Node

This lets filesystems control Generation produced. It also unifies
OpaqueID (used for implementors) NodeID (used for kernel comms) and
the Ino field (reported in Stat/Lstat calls).

For loopback, there is a minor inconvenience, which is that the file
is determined by (Dev, Ino). Get around this by xoring Dev and Ino.

Fix and test Nlink==0 test (issue #137)

Do not overwrite Attr.Ino, otherwise recycled inodes risk giving tools
like RSync the impression there are more hardlinks than there are.

identification

This fixes another possible race condition if the same file is looked
up through 2 different paths.

Remove FindChildByOpaqueID(), since it is still susceptible to race
conditions: two lookup calls might be racing, and both may see
FindChildByOpaqueID == nil, creating two Node objects

Instead, NewInode() automatically discards a new Node if it finds one
with existing opaqueID.

The FileID struct has (uint64,uint64) for Dev, Ino. While Dev
typically is uint32 (the FUSE protocol has uint32), it is uint64
analogous to syscall.Stat_t. The resulting 128 bits of ID space is
also ample space for storing hashes of other IDs (eg strings)

Inode.MvChild

Fix opaqueID

Nodes can become unused due to following reasons:

* no more children (see new RmChild function) 
* no kernel references (Forget)
* stop being persistent

If this happens, drop the node from the tree. Removals of nodes
cascade from leaves up to parents recursively

lookupCount is now protected by under Inode.mu

nodeID remains under bridge.mu

Co-author: navytux

Thanks to rfjakob for general feedback.

Next:
- add refctr like libfuse. Use it to implement persistent nodes 

TODO
- context for PID/caller
- Opendir

Open questions: grep for NOSUBMIT/TODO
- how many interfaces?
- explode SetAttr ?

Go-FUSE has been trailing the kernel, and the kernel (usually) is
careful to only send opcodes that are recognized. However, on GKE
(GCP) the undefined opcode 2016 has been seen, leading to a crash.

Fixes #276.

We usually were off by a factor of 256.
Fixes https://github.com/rfjakob/gocryptfs/issues/375

This reverts commit 9dcbb223.

Even though RELEASE is similar to FORGET, it must report back, or
tests will hang.