The code in binlog group commit around wait_for_commit that controls commit
order, did the wakeup of subsequent commits early, as soon as a following
transaction is put into the group commit queue, but before any such commit has
actually taken place. This causes problems with too early wakeup of
transactions that need to wait for prior to commit, but do not take part in
the binlog group commit for one reason or the other.

This patch solves the problem, by moving the wakeup to happen only after the
binlog group commit is completed.

This requires a new solution to ensure that transactions that arrive later
than the leader are still able to participate in group commit. This patch
introduces a flag wait_for_commit::commit_started. When this is set, a waiter
can queue up itself in the group commit queue.

This way, effectively the wait_for_prior_commit() is skipped only for
transactions that participate in group commit, so that skipping the wait is
safe. Other transactions still wait as needed for correctness.