Implement discovery of table non-existence, and related changes:

1. Split GTS_FORCE_DISCOVERY (that was meaning two different things in
two different functions) into GTS_FORCE_DISCOVERY and GTS_USE_DISCOVERY.
2. Move GTS_FORCE_DISCOVERY implementation into open_table_def().
3. In recover_from_failed_open() clear old errors *before* discovery,
not after successful discovery. The final error should come
from the discovery.
4. On forced discovery delete table .frm first. Discovery will write
a new one, if desired.
5. If the frm file exists, but not the table in the engine, force
rediscovery if the engine supports it.