make tdc_refresh_version an atomic counter".

To avoid orphaned TABLE_SHARE objects left in the
cache, make sure that wherever we set table->s->version
we take care of removing all unused table share objects
from the table cache. 

Always set table->s->version under LOCK_open, to make sure
that no other connection sees an old value of the
version and adds the table to unused_tables list.

Add an assert to table_def_unuse_table() that we never
'unuse' a talbe of a share that has an old version.

With this patch, only three places are left in the code
that manipulate with table->s->version:
- tdc_remove_table(). In most cases we have an X mdl lock
in tdc_remove_table(), the two remaining cases when we
don't are 'FLUSH TABLE' and mysql_admin_table().
- sql_view.cc - a crude hack that needs a separate fix
- initial assignment from refresh_version in table.cc.