With recent changes in the performance schema default sizing parameters,
the memory used by a mysqld binary increased accordingly.

This negatively affects the MTR test suite,
because running several tests in parallel now consumes more ressources.

The fix is to leave the default production values unchanged,
and to configure the MTR environment to limit memory
used when running tests in the test suite, which is ok
because only a few objects are typically used within a test script.

This fix:
- changed the default configuration in MTR to use less memory
- adjusted the performance schema tests accordingly

Note that 1,000 mutex instances was too short and caused test failures
in the past in team trees, so the default used is now 10,000 in MTR.

The amount of memory used by the performance schema itself
can be observed with the statement SHOW ENGINE PERFORMANCE_SCHEMA STATUS