BUG#39008 Additional fix after review, remove files that could potentially be set to path outside datadir

BUG#38559 Annoying cygwin problem fixed by resolving  pid->winpid before kill instead of just after fork

mysql-test/suite/rpl/r/rpl_misc_functions.result:
  Using temporary table to avoid leaving a table after test.
mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/rpl_ps.test:
  Adding drop of table t1.

mysql-test/extra/rpl_tests/rpl_log.test:
  Removing extreneous start slave.
  Added missing drop of table t1.
mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/rpl_binlog_query_filter_rules.test:
  Replaced $MYSQLTEST_VARDIR/log with $MYSQLD_DATADIR
mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/rpl_misc_functions.test:
  Using temporary table instead to remove need for drop table.

WL4189 Add Handles.pm and use it from My::File::Path to show open handles. Rewrite rmtree to use File::Find so we can get better debug printouts when something fails

Disable the test case on valgrind. This is a backport to 5.1-rpl of
something that already exists in 5.1 main.


mysql-test/t/partition_not_windows.test:
  Disable the test case on valgrind platform.

Rotate event is automatically generated and written when rotating binary
log or relay log. Rotate events for relay logs are usually ignored by slave
SQL thread becuase they have the same server id as that of the slave.
However, if --replicate-same-server-id is enabled, rotate event
for relay log would be treated as if it's a rotate event from master, and
would be executed by slave to update the rli->group_master_log_name and
rli->group_master_log_pos to a wrong value and cause the MASTER_POS_WAIT
function to fail and return NULL.

This patch fixed this problem by setting a flag bit (LOG_EVENT_RELAY_LOG_F)
in the event to tell the SQL thread to ignore these Rotate events generated
for relay logs.

This patch also added another binlog event flag bit (LOG_EVENT_ARTIFICIAL_F)
to distinquish faked events, the method used before this was by checking if
log_pos was zero.


sql/log.h:
  Add a member to MYSQL_BIN_LOG to distinguish binary log from relay log.
sql/log_event.cc:
  Change artificial_event member to LOG_EVENT_ARTIFICIAL_F flag
  
  If LOG_EVENT_RELAY_LOG_F is set in the event flags for a rotate event, ignore it when updating position
  
  Refactored the code in Rotate_log_event::do_update_pos
sql/log_event.h:
  Add LOG_EVENT_RELAY_LOG_F flag to Log_event flags
  Add RELAY_LOG flag to Rotate_log_event flags
sql/sql_repl.cc:
  Set LOG_EVENT_ARTIFICIAL_F for fake rotate events

Memoize functions that converts between different paths, a given input string will always return the same output. This save a lot of calls to cygpath for example