Document better the CE -> EE merge

Signed-off-by: Rémy Coutable <remy@rymai.me>

CONTRIBUTING.md

@@ -93,18 +93,20 @@ Please see the [UX Guide for GitLab].
 
 ### Retrospective
 
-After each release (usually on the 22nd of each month), we have a retrospective
-call where we discuss what went well, what went wrong, and what we can improve
-for the next release. The [retrospective notes] are public and you are invited
-to comment them.
-If you're interested, you can even join the [retrospective call][retro-kickoff-call].
+After each release, we have a retrospective call where we discuss what went well,
+what went wrong, and what we can improve for the next release. The
+[retrospective notes] are public and you are invited to comment on them.
+If you're interested, you can even join the
+[retrospective call][retro-kickoff-call], on the first working day after the
+22nd at 6pm CET / 9am PST.
 
 ### Kickoff
 
-Before working on the next release (usually on the 8th of each month), we have a
+Before working on the next release, we have a
 kickoff call to explain what we expect to ship in the next release. The
-[kickoff notes] are public and you are invited to comment them.
-If you're interested, you can even join the [kickoff call][retro-kickoff-call].
+[kickoff notes] are public and you are invited to comment on them.
+If you're interested, you can even join the [kickoff call][retro-kickoff-call],
+on the first working day after the 7th at 6pm CET / 9am PST..
 
 [retrospective notes]: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nEkM_7Dj4bT21GJy0Ut3By76FZqCfLBmFQNVThmW2TY/edit?usp=sharing
 [kickoff notes]: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ElPkZ90A8ey_iOkTvUs_ByMlwKK6NAB2VOK5835wYK0/edit?usp=sharing

doc/development/limit_ee_conflicts.md

@@ -2,19 +2,26 @@
 
 This guide contains best-practices for avoiding conflicts between CE and EE.
 
-## Context
+## Daily CE Upstream merge
 
-Usually, GitLab Community Edition is merged into the Enterprise Edition once a
-week. During these merges, it's very common to get conflicts when some changes
-in CE do not apply cleanly to EE.
+GitLab Community Edition is merged daily into the Enterprise Edition (look for
+the [`CE Upstream` merge requests]). The daily merge is currently done manually
+by four individuals.
 
-There are a few things that can help you as a developer to:
+**If a developer pings you in a `CE Upstream` merge request for help with
+resolving conflicts, please help them because it means that you didn't do your
+job to reduce the conflicts nor to ease their resolution in the first place!**
 
-- know when your merge request to CE will conflict when merged to EE
-- avoid such conflicts in the first place
-- ease future conflict resolutions if conflict is inevitable
+To avoid the conflicts beforehand when working on CE, there are a few tools and
+techniques that can help you:
 
-## Check the `rake ee_compat_check` in your merge requests
+- know what are the usual types of conflicts and how to prevent them
+- the CI `rake ee_compat_check` job tells you if you need to open an EE-version
+  of your CE merge request
+
+[`CE Upstream` merge requests]: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ee/merge_requests?label_name%5B%5D=CE+upstream
+
+## Check the status of the CI `rake ee_compat_check` job
 
 For each commit (except on `master`), the `rake ee_compat_check` CI job tries to
 detect if the current branch's changes will conflict during the CE->EE merge.