When detaching the last QP from an MCG entry, we need to make
sure that at any time, there will be no entry with zero number of
QPs which is linked to the list of the MCGs of the corresponding
hash index.  So don't write back the MCG entry if we are removing the
last QP; just unlink the entry.

Also, remove an unnecessary MCG read when attaching a QP requires
allocation of a new entry in the AMGM.
Signed-off-by: Eli Cohen <eli@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>