This patch makes following fixes in QP flush logic:

- correctly flushes unsignaled WRs followed by a signaled WR
- supports for flushing a CQ bound to multiple QPs
- resets cidx_flush if a active queue starts getting HW CQEs again
- marks WQ in error when we leave RTS. This was only being done for
  user queues, but we need it for kernel queues too so that
  post_send/post_recv will start returning the appropriate error
  synchronously
- eats unsignaled read resp CQEs. HW always inserts CQEs so we must
  silently discard them if the read work request was unsignaled.
- handles QP flushes with pending SW CQEs. The flush and out of order
  completion logic has a bug where if out of order completions are
  flushed but not yet polled by the consumer and the qp is then
  flushed then we end up inserting duplicate completions.
- c4iw_flush_sq() should only flush wrs that have not already been
  flushed.  Since we already track where in the SQ we've flushed via
  sq.cidx_flush, just start at that point and flush any remaining.
  This bug only caused a problem in the presence of unsignaled work
  requests.
Signed-off-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Vipul Pandya <vipul@chelsio.com>

[ Fixed sparse warning due to htonl/ntohl confusion.  - Roland ]
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>