Validating input parameters should be done before getting the cm_id
otherwise it can leak a cm_id reference.

Fixes: 6a21dfc0 ("RDMA/ucma: Limit possible option size")
Signed-off-by: Shamir Rabinovitch <shamir.rabinovitch@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>