sx8: use a per-host tag_set

The current sx8 code spends a lot of effort dealing with the fact that
tags are per-host, but there might be multiple queues.  Now that the
driver has been converted to blk-mq it can take care of the blk-mq
tag_set concept that has been designed just for that.
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>