There were two problems: RESET QUERY CACHE took a long time to complete
and other threads were blocked during this time.

The patch does three things:
  1 fixes a bug with improper use of test-lock-test_again technique.
      AKA Double-Checked Locking is applicable here only in few places.
  2 Somewhat improves performance of RESET QUERY CACHE.
      Do my_hash_reset() instead of deleting elements one by one.  Note
      however that the slowdown also happens when inserting into sorted
      list of free blocks, should be rewritten using balanced tree.
  3 Makes RESET QUERY CACHE non-blocking.
      The patch adjusts the locking protocol of the query cache in the
      following way: it introduces a flag flush_in_progress, which is
      set when Query_cache::flush_cache() is in progress.  This call
      sets the flag on enter, and then releases the lock.  Every other
      call is able to acquire the lock, but does nothing if
      flush_in_progress is set (as if the query cache is disabled).
      The only exception is the concurrent calls to
      Query_cache::flush_cache(), that are blocked until the flush is
      over.  When leaving Query_cache::flush_cache(), the lock is
      acquired and the flag is reset, and one thread waiting on
      Query_cache::flush_cache() (if any) is notified that it may
      proceed.