Contains following fixes:

* allow TOI commands to timeout while trying to acquire TOI with
override lock_wait_timeout with a LONG_TIMEOUT only after
succesfully entering TOI
* only ignore lock_wait_timeout on TOI
* fix galera_split_brain test as TOI operation now returns ER_LOCK_WAIT_TIMEOUT after lock_wait_timeout
* explicitly test for TOI
Reviewed-by: Jan Lindström <jan.lindstrom@mariadb.com>