MDEV-27106 added REMOTE_TABLE, REMOTE_DATABASE, REMOTE_SERVER spider
table options. In this commit, we add all remaining options for table
params that are not marked to be deprecated.

All these options are parsed as strings from sql statements and have
string values at the sql level, so that we can determine whether it is
specified by checking its nullness.

The string values are further parsed by Spider into their actual types
in the SPIDER_SHARE, including string list, bounded nonnegative int,
bounded nonnegative int list, nonnegative longlong, boolean, and key
hints. Except for string lists, all other types are validated during
this parsing process.

Most of the options are backward compatible, i.e. they accept any
values that is accepted by there corresponding param parser. The only
exception is the index hint IDX which corresponds to the idxNNN param
name. For example,

'idx000 "f PRIMARY", idx001 "u k1"'

translates to

IDX="f PRIMARY u k1".

We include a test with all options specified, and tests involving
spider table options of all actual types.

Any table options, if present, will cause comments to be ignored with
a warning. The warning can be disabled by setting a new spider
global/session system variable spider_suppress_comment_ignored_warning
to 1.

Another global/session variable introduced is spider_ignore_comments,
which if set to 1, will cause COMMENT and CONNECTION strings to be
ignored unconditionally, whether or not table options are specified.