If a replica failed to update the GTID slave state when committing
an XA PREPARE, the replica would retry the transaction and get an
out-of-order GTID error. This is because the commit phase of an XA
PREPARE is bifurcated. That is, first, the prepare is handled by the
relevant storage engines. Then second, the GTID slave state is
updated as a separate autocommit transaction. If the second phase
fails, and the transaction is retried, then the same transaction is
attempted to be committed again, resulting in a GTID out-of-order
error.

This patch fixes this error by immediately stopping the slave and
reporting the appropriate error. That is, there was logic to bypass
the error when updating the GTID slave state table if the underlying
error is allowed for retry on a parallel slave. This patch adds a
parameter to disallow the error bypass, thereby forcing the error
state to still happen.

Reviewed By
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Andrei Elkin <andrei.elkin@mariadb.com>