This is a backport of
commit fd9ca2a7 (MDEV-23295) and
commit 9a156e1a (MDEV-23345) to 10.3.

An instant ADD/DROP/reorder column could create a dummy table
object with the wrong ROW_FORMAT when innodb_default_row_format
was changed between CREATE TABLE and ALTER TABLE.

prepare_inplace_alter_table_dict(): If we had promised that
ALGORITHM=INPLACE is supported, we must preserve the ROW_FORMAT.

The rest of the changes are related to adding
Alter_inplace_info::inplace_supported to cache the return value of
handler::check_if_supported_inplace_alter().