Third cut to simplify parsing phase. Now DROP EVENT works.

Overloaded few functions to be able to use either sp_name or pass two LEX_STRINGs
instead of a Event_timed pointer. This is transitional and eventually the old
functions will be removed. For now DROP EVENT also works, does not need anymore
a parsing object (Event_timed) and definer initialization because everyone who
has EVENT_ACL can drop events, and this is checked on execution time in sql_parse.cc
from the security context, as it should be.