MDEV-20403 Assertion `0' or Assertion `btr_validate_index(index, 0)' failed in row_upd_sec_index_entry or error code 126: Index is corrupted upon UPDATE with TIMESTAMP..ON UPDATE

remove a special treatment of a bare DEFAULT keyword that made it
behave inconsistently and differently from DEFAULT(column).
Now all forms of the explicit assignment of a default column value
behave identically, and all count as an explicitly assigned value
(for the purpose of ON UPDATE NOW).

followup for c7c481f4