MDEV-26539 SIGSEGV in spider_check_and_set_trx_isolation and I_P_List_iterator from THD::drop_temporary_table (10.5.3 opt only) on ALTER

The server crashes if ALTER TABLE, which accesses physical data
placed at data nodes, is performed on a Spider table.

The cause of the bug is that spider_check_trx_and_get_conn() does
not allocate connections if sql_command == SQLCOM_ALTER_TABLE.
Some ALTER TABLE statements, like ALTER TABLE ... CHECK PARTITION,
access data nodes. So, we need to allocate a new connection before
performing ALTER TABLEs.