(Variant #5, full patch, for 10.5)

Do not produce SEL_ARG graphs that would yield huge numbers of ranges.
Introduce a concept of SEL_ARG graph's "weight". If we are about to
produce a graph whose "weight" exceeds the limit, remove the parts
of SEL_ARG graph that represent the biggest key parts. Do so until
the graph's is within the limit.

Includes
- debug code to verify SEL_ARG graph weight
- A user-visible @@optimizer_max_sel_arg_weight to control the optimization
- Logging the optimization into the optimizer trace.