MDEV-29710: Valgrind tests massively fail due to silently killing server on shutdown timeout

Let us disable Valgrind on tests that would fail because a
server shutdown or a STOP SLAVE command would take longer,
causing the test harness to forcibly and silently kill the server
due to an exceeded timeout.

mysql-test/include/master-slave.inc

+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
+
 # ==== Purpose ====
 #
 # Configure two servers to be replication master and slave.

mysql-test/main/mysql_upgrade.test

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@
 -- source include/have_working_dns.inc
 -- source include/have_innodb.inc
 -- source include/have_partition.inc
+-- source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 set sql_mode="";
 

mysql-test/main/plugin_auth.test

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@
 --source include/not_embedded.inc
 --source include/mysql_upgrade_preparation.inc
 --source include/have_innodb.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 SET GLOBAL SQL_MODE="";
 SET LOCAL SQL_MODE="";

mysql-test/suite/innodb/t/alter_missing_tablespace.test

 --source include/not_embedded.inc
 --source include/innodb_page_size.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 --echo #
 --echo # Bug#13955083 ALLOW IN-PLACE DDL OPERATIONS ON MISSING

mysql-test/suite/innodb/t/ibuf_not_empty.test

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
 --source include/not_embedded.inc
 # The test is not big enough to use change buffering with larger page size.
 --source include/have_innodb_max_16k.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 SET GLOBAL innodb_purge_rseg_truncate_frequency=1;
 --disable_query_log

mysql-test/suite/innodb/t/innodb-get-fk.test

@@ -2,6 +2,8 @@
 --source include/default_charset.inc
 # need to restart server
 --source include/not_embedded.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
+
 CREATE SCHEMA `repro`;
 
 CREATE TABLE `repro`.`crew` (

mysql-test/suite/innodb/t/missing_tablespaces.test

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@
 --source include/not_embedded.inc
 #Windows has trouble creating files/directories with long names
 --source include/not_windows.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 --echo #
 --echo # Bug#19419026 WHEN A TABLESPACE IS NOT FOUND, DO NOT REPORT "TABLE NOT FOUND"

mysql-test/suite/innodb/t/xa_recovery.test

 --source include/have_innodb.inc
 # Embedded server does not support restarting.
 --source include/not_embedded.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 # MDEV-8841 - close tables opened by previous tests, 
 # so they don't get marked crashed when the server gets crashed

mysql-test/suite/mariabackup/log_page_corruption.test

 --source include/have_debug.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 --echo ########
 --echo # Test for generating "innodb_corrupted_pages" file during full and

mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/rpl_gtid_stop_start.test

 --let $rpl_topology=1->2
 --source include/rpl_init.inc
 --source include/have_innodb.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 --echo *** Test normal shutdown/restart of slave server configured as a GTID slave. ***
 

mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/rpl_mdev12179.test

 --source include/have_innodb.inc
 --let $rpl_topology=1->2
 --source include/rpl_init.inc
+--source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 --connection server_2
 call mtr.add_suppression("The automatically created table.*name may not be entirely in lowercase");

mysql-test/suite/sys_vars/t/innodb_buffer_pool_dump_at_shutdown_basic.test

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
 -- source include/have_innodb.inc
 # include/restart_mysqld.inc does not work in embedded mode
 -- source include/not_embedded.inc
+-- source include/no_valgrind_without_big.inc
 
 # Check the default value
 SET @orig = @@global.innodb_buffer_pool_dump_at_shutdown;