MDEV-21958 Query having many NOT-IN clauses running forever and causing...

MDEV-21958 Query having many NOT-IN clauses running forever and causing available free memory to use completely

let thd->killed to abort range optimizer

sql/opt_range.h

@@ -656,6 +656,7 @@ class RANGE_OPT_PARAM
   bool statement_should_be_aborted() const
   {
     return
+      thd->killed ||
       thd->is_fatal_error ||
       thd->is_error() ||
       alloced_sel_args > SEL_ARG::MAX_SEL_ARGS;