Large number of changes to support building RPMs using CMake, along

with other merges from the old distribution-specific spec file.

 - update copyright notices

 - remove __os_install_post override, it was only necessary as a
   hack to build debuginfo packages - now that we no longer make
   them we can revert to the distribution macro which likely has
   other useful bits we might want

 - remove _unpackaged_files_terminate_build override, we want to
   know of any orphaned files

 - include native distribution support

 - no longer build separate debuginfo RPMs, instead just include
   debug/symbols in all binaries, which is more useful for support

 - include support for building commercial RPMs, requires a
   commercial source tree

 - remove cluster RPM support, we don't build them from this
   source tree

 - use CMake for building, and update package lists to match the
   new install layout/files.  Remove any options which were only
   useful for automake builds (e.g. yassl/zlib).

 - other minor cleanups