"mysql_send_long_data() API call is completely broken".

Now we are resetting some members (long_data_supplied/null_value...) of Item_param to its 
initial state after each execution of prepared statement. We also manipulating 
Item_param::maybe_null/null_value only via Item_param::set_* setters which makes code a bit 
more robust.

into mysql.com:/home/kostja/mysql/mysql-4.1-root

requested by Monty for Bug#1647 (No way to determine what size 
blob/clob is being returned into bound buffer)

into mc05.(none):/space/tomas/mysql-4.1-make

into mysql.com:/dbdata/psergey/mysql-4.1-my-ps-bugs

  improved distdir

  added configure options PACKAGE and VERSION for ndb
GuessConfig.sh:
  added options for PACKAGE and VERSION
Epilogue.mk:
  Added target distdir

  new file

into serg.mylan:/usr/home/serg/Abk/mysql-4.1

mysql_stmt_reset() now resets param->long_data_used
Abort if --defaults-file=path-name uses a non-existing file (Bug #3413)
Fixed problem with symlink test (bug in 4.1.2)

into mysql.com:/dbdata/psergey/mysql-4.1-bug3567

Ensure that mysqldump doesn't give an error about missing Index.xml when it's not needed

into mishka.local:/home/my/mysql-4.1

Changed 'SHOW FIELD STATUS' to use 'Engine' instead of 'Type'

into mysql.com:/dbdata/psergey/mysql-4.1-bug3567

into mysql.com:/space/my/mysql-4.1-build

 - added compiling of the NDB Cluster to compile-pentium-max

symlink a whole dir, not individual files (symlinking individual files is one subdir below and results in broken links)

  Allow a key path length in InnoDB to be up to 3500 bytes; this is needed so that one can create an index on a column with 255 UTF-8 characters

mkdir in Makefile, not in configure
chmod a-x

into sergbook.mylan:/usr/home/serg/Abk/mysql-4.1

  changed default for nbdcluster to DISABLED

  cosmetic

into sergbook.mylan:/usr/home/serg/Abk/mysql-4.1

  fix for embedded server and ndbcluster make

into sergbook.mylan:/usr/home/serg/Abk/mysql-4.1

fixed syntax errro