Instead of storing a pointer to a cdev, embed the entire struct cdev.

This change allows us to use the container_of() macro in
ib_uverbs_open() in a future patch.

This change increases the size of struct ib_uverbs_device to 168 bytes
across 3 cachelines from 80 bytes in 2 cachelines.  However, we
rearrange the members so that everything fits into the first cacheline
except for the struct cdev. Finally, we don't touch the cdev in any
fastpaths, so this change shouldn't negatively affect performance.
Signed-off-by: Alex Chiang <achiang@hp.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>