Combine the userptr, rebind, and destroy links into a union as
the lists these links belong to are mutually exclusive.

v2: Adjust which lists are combined (Thomas H)
v3: Add kernel doc why this is safe (Thomas H), remove related change
of list_del_init -> list_del (Rodrigo)
Reviewed-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>