There is no point in accepting a new CM request only
when we are completely done with the last iscsi login.
Instead we accept immediately, this will also cause the
CM connection to reach connected state and the initiator
is allowed to send the first login. We mark that we got
the initial login and let iscsi layer pick it up when it
gets there.

This reduces the parallel login sequence by a factor of
more then 4 (and more for multi-login) and also prevents
the initiator (who does all logins in parallel) from
giving up on login timeout expiration.

In order to support multiple login requests sequence (CHAP)
we call isert_rx_login_req from isert_rx_completion insead
of letting isert_get_login_rx call it.

Squashed:

iser-target: Use kref_get_unless_zero in connected_handler
iser-target: Acquire conn_mutex when changing connection state
iser-target: Reject connect request in failure path
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v3.10+
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>