originally, stack closures were only used synchronously, and with the
original implementation of closure_sync() the ref never hit 0; thus,
closure_put_after_sub() assumes that if the ref hits 0 it's on the debug
list, in debug mode.

that's no longer true with the current implementation of closure_sync,
so we need a new magic so closure_debug_destroy() doesn't pop an assert.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>