Add set/clear wrappers for toggling APICv inhibits to make the call sites
more readable, and opportunistically rename the inner helpers to align
with the new wrappers and to make them more readable as well.  Invert the
flag from "activate" to "set"; activate is painfully ambiguous as it's
not obvious if the inhibit is being activated, or if APICv is being
activated, in which case the inhibit is being deactivated.

For the functions that take @set, swap the order of the inhibit reason
and @set so that the call sites are visually similar to those that bounce
through the wrapper.
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Message-Id: <20220311043517.17027-3-seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>