Add a ft entry when connections enter an established state and delete
the connections when they leave the established state.

The flow table assumes ownership of the connection. In the following
patch act_ct will lookup the ct state from the FT. In future patches,
drivers will register for callbacks for ft add/del events and will be
able to use the information to offload the connections.

Note that connection aging is managed by the FT.
Signed-off-by: Paul Blakey <paulb@mellanox.com>
Acked-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>