else we will oops (null deref) when the attributes aren't present.

Also add back the EOPNOTSUPP in case MARK filtering is requested but
kernel doesn't support it.

Fixes: 59c08c69 ("netfilter: ctnetlink: Support L3 protocol-filter on flush")
Reported-by: syzbot+e45eda8eda6e93a03959@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>