xe_assert() is intended to be used only for "impossible" situations that
should never be hit (and if they are hit it means there's a driver bug
somewhere); assertions are only compiled into debug builds.

Although we expect jobs submitted by the kernel to be well-behaved and
run without error, timeouts are a legitimate possibility for reasons
beyond our control (bad firmware, flaky hardware, etc.).  We should use
a real WARN if we encounter these, even for non-debug builds, to ensure
the issue is being properly highlighted in bug reports and such.

Also give the WARNs more human-readable messages and move them below the
general notice-level message that gets printed for any kind of timeout
to make the errors a bit more understandable.

v2:
 - Convert the VM / exec_queue_killed assertion as well.  (MattB)
Signed-off-by: Matt Roper <matthew.d.roper@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240130200308.1429134-2-matthew.d.roper@intel.com