Referenced commit doesn't always set iifidx when offloading the flow to
hardware. Fix the following cases:

- nf_conn_act_ct_ext_fill() is called before extension is created with
nf_conn_act_ct_ext_add() in tcf_ct_act(). This can cause rule offload with
unspecified iifidx when connection is offloaded after only single
original-direction packet has been processed by tc data path. Always fill
the new nf_conn_act_ct_ext instance after creating it in
nf_conn_act_ct_ext_add().

- Offloading of unidirectional UDP NEW connections is now supported, but ct
flow iifidx field is not updated when connection is promoted to
bidirectional which can result reply-direction iifidx to be zero when
refreshing the connection. Fill in the extension and update flow iifidx
before calling flow_offload_refresh().

Fixes: 9795ded7 ("net/sched: act_ct: Fill offloading tuple iifidx")
Reviewed-by: Paul Blakey <paulb@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Vlad Buslov <vladbu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Fixes: 6a9bad00 ("net/sched: act_ct: offload UDP NEW connections")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231103151410.764271-1-vladbu@nvidia.comSigned-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>