Only set the abort call completion state in the I/O thread and only
transmit ABORT packets from there.  rxrpc_abort_call() can then be made to
actually send the packet.

Further, ABORT packets should only be sent if the call has been exposed to
the network (ie. at least one attempted DATA transmission has occurred for
it).
Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Marc Dionne <marc.dionne@auristor.com>
cc: linux-afs@lists.infradead.org