In certain error paths, it is possible for an rbd device to have a
parent spec but no parent rbd_dev.  In rbd_dev_remove_parent() use
the parent field rather than parent_spec in determining whether to
try to remove any parent devices.  Use assertions to indicate that
any non-null parent pointer has parent_spec associated with it.
Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>