When resync or recovery is happening in one node,
other nodes don't show the appropriate info now.

For example, when create an array in master node
without "--assume-clean", then assemble the array
in slave nodes, you can see "resync=PENDING" when
read /proc/mdstat in slave nodes. However, the info
is confusing since "PENDING" status is introduced
for start array in read-only mode.

We introduce RESYNCING_REMOTE flag to indicate that
resync thread is running in remote node. The flags
is set when node receive RESYNCING msg. And we clear
the REMOTE flag in following cases:

1. resync or recover is finished in master node,
   which means slaves receive msg with both lo
   and hi are set to 0.
2. node continues resync/recovery in recover_bitmaps.
3. when resync_finish is called.

Then we show accurate information in status_resync
by check REMOTE flags and with other conditions.
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>