Completion errors after a disconnect often occur much sooner than a
CM_DISCONNECT event. Use this to try to detect connection loss more
quickly.

Note that other kernel ULPs do take care to disconnect explicitly
when a WR is flushed.
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>