sock_rcvlowat() or int_sk_rcvlowat() might be called without the socket
lock for example from tcp_poll().

Use READ_ONCE() to document the fact that other cpus might change
sk->sk_rcvlowat under us and avoid KCSAN splats.

Use WRITE_ONCE() on write sides too.
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>