If a file is hardlinked with the same name but from multiple parents,
the parent pointers will all have the same dirent name (== attr name)
but with different parent_ino/parent_gen values.  To disambiguate, we
need to be able to match on both the attr name and the attr value.  This
is in contrast to regular xattrs, which are matchtg edit
d only on name.

Therefore, plumb in the ability to match shortform and local attrs on
name and value in the XFS_ATTR_PARENT namespace.  Parent pointer attr
values are never large enough to be stored in a remote attr, so we need
can reject these cases as corruption.
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>