nvme-fc: add dev_loss_tmo timeout and remoteport resume support

When a remoteport is unregistered (connectivity lost), the following
actions are taken:

 - the remoteport is marked DELETED
 - the time when dev_loss_tmo would expire is set in the remoteport
 - all controllers on the remoteport are reset.

After a controller resets, it will stall in a RECONNECTING state waiting
for one of the following:

 - the controller will continue to attempt reconnect per max_retries and
   reconnect_delay.  As no remoteport connectivity, the reconnect attempt
   will immediately fail.  If max reconnects has not been reached, a new
   reconnect_delay timer will be schedule.  If the current time plus
   another reconnect_delay exceeds when dev_loss_tmo expires on the remote
   port, then the reconnect_delay will be shortend to schedule no later
   than when dev_loss_tmo expires.  If max reconnect attempts are reached
   (e.g. ctrl_loss_tmo reached) or dev_loss_tmo ix exceeded without
   connectivity, the controller is deleted.
 - the remoteport is re-registered prior to dev_loss_tmo expiring.
   The resume of the remoteport will immediately attempt to reconnect
   each of its suspended controllers.
Signed-off-by: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
[hch: updated to use nvme_delete_ctrl]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>